Tuesday, February 4, 2014

My "Red Hot" Moment

I have a love/hate relationship with BBW parties.  If you don't know what they are, put it in the Google machine and learn something!  
Anyhoo, the love part of that equation comes from being allowed to feel normal.  The first time I wore a bikini in my adult life was at a BBW party.  As a fat girl at a BBW party, you are allowed to wear things that "normal" girls would wear and not feel out of place or feel that you are being snickered at and going to wind up in a photo on Facebook as someone's idea of a fat joke. Enter skimpy, sequined red dress here.  I wore this mini dress to a party a few years ago.  It was another first for me.  I am not the type of girl to go to a club.  That is where I would expect to see a dress like this...on a thin girl with a cocktail in her hand, dancing to some DJ in a nightclub with flashing lights that might cause a seizure.  Even though I look like a red Christmas tree ornament, I wore the hell out of this dress at the party.  In real life, it has made it into a couple of Halloween costumes.  That's were a fat girl can wear a dress like this in real life....Halloween. Kinda sad, isn't it?  

Dress is from Torrid in a size 5

February Ahead of the Curve: 2014

We are a collective of plus size bloggers coming together to post on the same subject. This month we are sharing our take on “Red Hot” so check them out by clicking on each link:


The Fat Girl
Harper Valley TV

Young & Thrifted
Curvy is Beautiful by Mary Demetra

You can find more information about Ahead of the Curve or our past topics here, http://www.aheadofthecurvebloggers.com.


  1. Nothing better than a fierce red dress!! I want a Pink Flamingos Divine red dress so bad.

  2. I love this red dress and you definitely rocked it!!!!

  3. Hot. Hot. HOTNESS. Love that you wore it. Love that you love it. Dance the night away..... XOX M

  4. Your bad self could rock that dress in any club!

  5. I love that dress on you! You are hot!